Friendship is a relationship of depth, can communicate with each other, mutually supportive, loyal, understanding, intimate and full of empathy. If you have friends who can you trust, and you can relax with them, easy to open about what your experienced, then you are very lucky as a person.
Friends of is like an oases in which when the world around you is very disorganized in the day, and everything is not in accordance with the plan, and you feel very tired. When you meet with your friends, you will feel very comfortable & relax, that is the meaning of the truth.
Provide a sense of friendship, comfort and fun in your heart, especially when the middle with you or talk to them. But one thing you must remember, you may not have friends like that, if you can not become a person like that to others.
Friends have the same features as an investment. If you appreciate your investment and strive to be the investment grow, then so too is the case that you need to do to your friends.
Below are some tips that may give an idea how to be your investment in your friendships grow and profitable:
1. Send email regularly, because this way you can keep in touch with the fast & cheap.
2. Phone at least once a week, does not need a long time are often more important.
3. Leave a message box on the mail / sms. Ask about their condition.
4. Send greeting cards, either by post or e-card.
5. Exercise together. We are highly recommended for sports, then why not do it with friends? more very fun and build relationships.
6. Lunch together at least once a month, the more often the better.
7. Learning to listen with good friends, do not be too quick to give advice.
8. Perspective of how to respect you. Different personality affects how you view.
9. Do not damaged faith! Because the trust will be destroyed when the damage is forever friendship.
10. Support & say about good things about your friends, and not too bothered about their weakness.
11. Do not be jealous of your success with, but give praise for a very reasonable.
Flexibility is also very necessary in friendship. Do not quick-tempered if you are friends with the plan. Learn to accept the changes.
If in the end there is quarreling or conflict, and usually will happen, so make sure you discuss with the head cold / calm down. And make sure you do not leave your friends with a problem that has not been completed.
Dedicated to all of my best friends:
Hindun, Intan, BS Gank SMP 42,
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